It's one of those places I seldom visit other than times like Charlies' passing.
In reality, funerals and memorials are for the living. The dead don't care.
Memorials such as the hundreds, probably thousands, of Confederate memorials in my part of the country. They aren't about individuals, but instead sacrifice of local populations. I find those, an interesting reminder of our history.
As I have done nuthin remarkably notable. I have nuthin but a tombstone for my former presence when that time arrives.
I've requested cremation, and no more than a short graveside service, if that.
It will lessen any suffering in the case there are those that might care, and also cut down on the celebratory opportunities of those, joyful of my exit.
Gone, and soon forgotten.
