I cannot see where it makes much difference. Ex. some manuals just say to use a small pistol primer and other will tell you a make and model and not to change components. My main experience has been with CCI and Winchester and their is a definate difference in the hardness between the two. I break another rule and use Magnum Primers where the books call for standards. But then other places you read where you should use magnums with high quantities of slow burning powder, but very few reloading books list a magnum as the standard primer.
My bottom line, I use what you are supposed to as far as "Small Pistol" for example, but that is about it. I figure that if you start on the bottom of the load scale as you are suppose to and watch for excess pressure there will not be a problem. I might get burnt by this someday, but I have never seen any difference in the pressure signs in the past.