So Phalanx is voicing his desire to see his wife! He has loved her for years, and he misses her..
So, what is he supposed to do....? Just leave her and go out and seek another?
There are millions in that situation..career military, all sorts of executives..scientists and various construction people...just for starters.
You just don't turn love off, over travel assignments..
I sure miss my wife..she passed 5 years ago, this coming week...I miss her, but no way I could replace her in my heart.