Hardening for most carbon steels is as already described to you. If you wish to temper, place the parts in a 400 degree oven, (don't let the wife catch you), for about an hour, then just turn the oven off and leave it until it cools to the touch.
To anneal, you need to bring the metal to red, then cool very slowly. I usually use a bucket of sand on the forge heated until the bucket won't take any more heat, then plunge the heated part into the sand, kill the forge and let it cool slowly.
Bear in mind there are now hundreds of alloys out there, some are air hardening, etc. What works for most won't work for all.
Ben