I am very very sorry that this accident happened to you.  Thank God you did not lose an eye.  I would urge you to give up all reloading forever.  Here is why.
 
   I have been chastised on these boards for many years because I don't reload, and I have said that I hate to reload, and I often recommend against it.
 
   When I first started shooting rifles back in 1979, I decided to reload.  I spent alot of money on a full Lee reloading set, press, scales etc.  Back then, you had an actual swinging scale, and you had to hand weigh each charge by trickling the powder into a pan on the scale, and watching the scale bob up and down.  You then had to hand-dump the powder into the case, making sure not to spill any, and making sure you didn't do it twice to one case.
 
   I had a very high stress job, full of problems and anxiety.   Whenever I  was away from the job, and in a quiet setting, my mind was immediately back at the job, worrying and working on the problems, as if I were in a trance.
 
   What I found was that while I was reloading, I would OFTEN blink, and find myself holding a case in my hand, not knowing whether I had just poured powder into it, or whether I had picked it up from the empty case tray, or whether I had maybe picked it up from the full case tray.  I would then have to dump the case (almost always finding it empty, but once finding it charged), and start over with measuring and pouring of powder.
 
   I realized that sooner or later, an explosion was imminent, and I would lose an eye or a hand.  I have a "distracted" personality and can't stay focused on a tight and dangerous mechanical task.   
 
    Losing an eye or a hand just to save $10 on a box of .243s just didn't seem worth it.  I would be better off going into the office for two hours, and making an additional $100, and just buying 5 boxes of factory ammo.
 
   Reloading is simply NOT for everyone, and I find it problematic and wrong that it is highly recommended to everyone.  If you don't have the right mind-set, personality, and focus, it can be deadly.
 
   With all of the close calls that the original poster has had with his reloads, I think that like me, he doesn't have the personality for it, and should let it go forever.
 
Best, Mannyrock