gunnut69 & iowagen are on the money. I will say that a given bore that is never heated to an abnormal temperature, normal for a hunting rifle is not the normal for a rifle used in combat. Taking each into cosideration, gunnneut69 says, load to the lower pressures, each barrel will have xxx,xxx of barrel life in it when loaded with xyz powder and then only zz,zzz when powder abc is used in it. Take a NEF .223, which is capable up to 3700fps with the 40gr. Blitzking but loading it down to 3200fps which is certainly respectable, I do not believe that your father, you, your son, a
possibly your grandson will not wear the rifle out when shot as such. People talk about ordering 1000rds at a time, if you don't have a semi-auto, it takes a while to, when load a magazine up with 5 rounds, shoot that much ammo up. Loads at the 3200fps would certainly go 100,000 rds before really being able to notice that it is the barrel and not you, missing the target.
I have always meant to keep track of the rounds that I have put thru each rifle and pistol that I own but I don't. Not many do, I don't think. It would be nice to have thought about after purchasing a new, or even used, firearm to put it into a vise, padded most definitely, reloading your ammunition and shot on a truly average day, little to no wind, no brewing, temp 75' and shot say 5-5 shot groups and then do that every year that you own that rifle. Of course it will be off a tad just because of the powder being of a different lot. Anyone ever do that or close to this?
From what my gunsmith tells me, more barrels are used up by cleaning them to much, too hard, or in the wrong way. He has told me, if you buy a new firearm, break it in somewhat gently, and then make no more than 5 strokes with a bronze brush, then cleaned with swatches and use a bore mop and coat the bore with oil. Before you go shoot, run a couple of patches down the barrel to clean the older oil up, run a patch with a tad bit of oil on it down the bore. Also never bring back a patch that has been run down the barrel, just pull it off, pull the, preferably, single rod back out. Alway use a crown protector to preserve the muzzle and crown.