I'm not sure if you're having a problem with the die, or just the setup of the die. When I expand my 45-70 brass, there is definitely a bell at the case mouth. I'm using RCBS dies for what it's worth, but I don't think that's the issue. Your expanded brass needs to be able to have a bullet base "clear" the bell and sit down a bit into the brass. I use mostly soft cast bullets, and they won't take being seated that hard into the brass. Once my bullet is seated to the desired length, I use my crimp die to just knock the bell back straight to the case wall, and no deeper. In other words, the case mouth is now flat to the side of the bullet, but doesn't turn inwards at all. Sometimes, depending on the chamber, you can even leave the case mouth slightly belled outwards (very slightly).
If you're trying to seat the bullet without belling the case mouth, that would do it. Don't worry about the belled out mouth being a problem, you can go back in a separate step afterwards and flatten out the bell using your crimp die. It sounds to me like you don't have enough expansion and casemouth bell to start with.
Take a piece of brass that is ready for the expander die step, and do a trial expansion, then try to chamber the brass in your barrel. It's easier to do if the barrel is on the frame (for extraction), but it's not necessary. Then by slightly increasing the amount of expansion in increments, you will find the amount of expansion and casemouth belling that will still chamber in your barrel. You can then use this piece of brass to do the seat test to find the OAL for your chamber and this bullet. Start by seating this bullet long, and incrementally seating the bullet deeper while checking it in your barrel. Once you have this OAL, you don't need to do your brass that way for the batch of handloads. Just expand and bell the brass enough for good bullet seating, and use the crimp die to just take the bell out when your done.
I hope I didn't make that too confusing. If so, let me know, and I'll try to whip together some pictures with my 45-70 dies, brass, and my Contender barrel. It's much easier than it sounds all typed out like this.