Amen to all you've said today Dee.
When someone refuses to see the truth of a given situation, proof of it being laid out in front of him to see, and he still refuses to see it, he doesn't WANT to see it. I have to agree with you, Dee, and Gw, in that WL has never once shown a single shred of documentation to support his claims. He either doesn't have anything to show, doesn't know how to find it, or it doesn't exist.
Gw and Dee and lc, we're on the same page on this stuff. Anyone needing proof of slave relations with whites need look no further than the former slaves themselves. My own great grandmother wrote about a slave woman on a neighboring plantation who's three sons had just been murdered by Gen. Sherman's troops. She insisted on taking this woman in to help her through a horrible situation. This was normal conduct for these people, even for years before the War.
I'm only 42 years old and nobody in my family ever locked a door until sometime in the late 1990's. We used to actually leave home to go grocery shopping and leave the front door standing wide open, as well as every window in the house (before air conditioning). My mother would streak my backside if she ever heard me call somebody a nigger. Both of my parents used to work in the fields alongside blacks and black women were their nannies. My mother still says to this day that if these people were good enough to feed and nurture them as children, they were absolutely going to be shown the same respect and admiration they gave.
I have read over 100 letters from Union soldiers, writing home and telling their families of how they had been mislead as far as how slaves were treated in the South. They were shocked at how they actually shared friendships with their masters; almost a kinship, as one wrote.
Below are just a few excerpts from the "Ex-Slave Narratives" concerning the relationships of slaves with their masters, in the former slaves' OWN words, in his or her OWN grammar:
Isaam Morgan, Mobile, AL
"Anytime a slave worked overtime or cut mo' wood dan he s'pose to, Massa pay him money for it, 'cause whenever one of us slaves seen somp'n we lak, we did jus lak da white folks does now. Us bought it. Massa never whupped none of his slaves... No'm none of our slaves never tried to run away. Dey all knowed dey was well off... dey (Yankees) offered me a hoss iffen I would go nawth wid dem, but I jus' couldn't leave de Massa even dough I did want dat hoss mighty bad."
Simon Phillips, AL
"People has da wrong idea of slave days. We was treated good. My Massa never laid a hand on me da whole time I was wid him... Sometime we loaned da Massa money when he was hard pushed."
Cora Gillam, Litte Rock, AR
" I'll tell you lady, if the rough element from the North had stayed out of the South the trouble of reconstruction would not have happened... they tried to excite the colored against their white friends. The white folks was still kind to them what had been their slaves. They would have helped them get started [in their new lives as freemen]. I know that. But the Yankees didn't leave them nothing to help us get started WITH. I always say that if the South could of been left to adjust itself both white and colored would have been better off."
Jane Georgiana, AL
"Ole Marster dead an' gone an' Ole Mistis too, but I 'members 'em jus' lak dey was, when dey looked atter (after) us whenst we belonged to 'em or dey belong to us, I dunno which it was."
"De times was better fo' de war.... I goes to church and sings and prays, an' when de good Lord teks me, I'se ready to go, en I specs to see Jesus an' Ole Mistis an' Ole Marster when I gits to de he'beny land'!"
Now, I don't know about you, but I'm a helluva lot more inclined to believe these people than some northern "professor" trying to teach something he can't substantiate. These people LIVED it. They were THERE. These are just a very few of the first-hand accounts of these people.
WL, when you can show me this type of evidence to prove your point, I want to see it. Unlike you, I will study it and if I'm proven wrong, I'll tell you I was wrong, in front of God and Country! Opinions mean nothing unless you can show the facts you use to form those opinions.
Y'all have a good day,
DEO VINDICE