If I was you I'd spend the $200 towards buying a 223 and practice shooting with that. I have the T3 in 308, it is a lightweight rifle so recoil is evident. I actually put the Limbsaver recoil pad on it which helps. Really the recoil of the 308 is not bad at all, it could be the noise which makes you flinch? I have only owned rifles for a few years, coming here as a foreigner. The first time I shot a 30-06 I hated it. I bought my first centerfire, a 223 and I just shot the hell out of it. I can shoot in my back yard which helps. I now shoot 308, 7mm Rem Mag and anything else which comes along. I believe that it was trigger time with the 223 which helped me. I sight in a lot of friends rifles and I see them flinch. It is the old adage, practice makes perfect.