as far as nickel is concerned, I get factory reject .357 nickel brass from starline and load it up hot with BARELY less than a H-110 max load all the time (not painful due to porting and good grips but still disgusting blast) not a single issue yet, and I crimp them really hard too (I've had it start to chip by the mouths before, but I usually toss them after about five loadings
and when I say I've used rejects, well sometimes it's just that the nickel is discolored, sometimes it's mixed headstamps, sometimes it's flashhole run-out...
nickel won't hurt anything except your dies (wears them out faster)