What dies, and how many (2, 3 or 4) depends upon whether you are reloading rifle or pistol, bottle-neck or straight cases.  For straightwalled pistol ammunition get carbide dies, and the reloading dies do come in sets, not individual.  If you buy 30-06, for instance, you have all the dies you need in the box.  You will need a shellholder to fit.  30-06/308/mauser size brass mostly all use the same shell holder which will also fit 45ACP.  Others go by the charts the makers have for fit.