Roger, roger on that BB...you got more hair than I with that curved butt plate...FIRST thing I did with my BC...BEFORE shooting it... was pull that nasty thing off, square it up and install a Limbsaver. Curved butt plates might look cool but the have absolutely NO give.
You're definitely right about the face thing Mac...even the puff of air from a muzzle break will make some people jumpy...and getting slapped in the nose with your own thumb when you don't get your cheek welded to the stock or hammered by a mis-shaped comb is NOT the best way to get acquainted with a hard kicker.
Finding the right shaped stock or reshaping one to fit your hand and face is a very good thing to learn...I don't have a rifle OR shotgun stock that I haven't modified to fit my hand and cheek one way or another...
My Rem870 knocked the stuff out of me every time I cranked off one of those extra stout slug loads I worked up until I put on one of the 1/4" foam cheek protectors...Not sure if it was the extra quarter inch or the foam softening, but it sure helped. There are some very nice 1 1/2" thick shotgun recoil pads, but for some reason not many seem to go for them...I will put one on my 510 Makatak for sure or a Grind to fit Limbsaver AND a slip on one...
My Mossy 500 with a synthetic stock slaps me good but the wood stock doesn't even though the synthetic one weighs more(full of lead shot). I bought a Mossy 535 combo for the rifled barrel and extra length shotshell more than anything, then put on a thumbhole stock, Limbsaver AND foam cheek piece and the combination makes it
almost pleasant to shoot the heavy slug loads.
The aftermarket Gun Stocks Inc thunmbhole stock makes shooting the 45-120 or 12GaFH much more pleasant(?). I camo'ed the 12GaFH including the thumbhole stock and heavy forend so it doesn't go too well hanging off the 45-120, but I will remedy that some day.
Part and parcel of this game is to get YOUR shooter to fit YOU and to do whatever is required to make your toy a pleasure to shoot. Looking at some of the synthetic monstrosities being produced makes me cringe just thinking about how hurt you can get if they were on a hard hitter...you can get away with having them on a 223 or such, but anything much more and you're asking for cheek knots.
When you are working up load you need to consider the barrel length and use a powder that will burn in that length...that will produce the highest velocity and NO loss of pressure due to the powder burning OUTSIDE the barrel...i.e., BIG FLASH AND FIREBALL. If the powder burn is too slow that's what will occure and some powders just make a lot of flash. Use a reloading manual that shows velocity and presssure and pick a powder that gives the highest velocity and lowest pressures which was developed in a rifle with the same length barrel as your shooter...if possible. Many times, but NOT always...there will be a couple that match those parameters for you to try
Luck