plumberroy, I know exactly what you mean. I have a Model 94 Winchester 3030 Dad bought new in 1958, and after firing it only 7 times he gave it to me. Trouble is, I don't have anyone to give it to before I die. You see, my son's have a penchant for getting behind and making friends with the pawn broker. They pawn their possessions and never pick them up. I hate the thought of that ole 3030 sitting in a pawn shop gun rack. I used that gun for well over a decade on man hunts, (I was a tracker) and in a patrol car before switching to an AR15, and even have old news paper clippings of man hunts with my picture holding that 3030. That doesn't even begin to count the hours in the woods, just enjoying the woods. I have reloaded, and shot hundreds and hundreds of rounds thru it, and still hit milk jugs with it at a little beyond 250 yards consistently. It is like an old friend, and has been there since I was 8 years old.
I do have a couple of nephews by marriage that I am considering. At 60 I hope I have enough time to enjoy the rifle and think about it little more though.