I thought I had a good command of the English language, but it appears that I do not.
I am spacing this out in an attempt that my words not be misconstrued.
Look for no hidden meanings, please. None are present.
What you read, is what I meant. If I meant something else, I would say it.
My point, my one and only point, seems impossible to convey to people.
Its almost like I am writing in a exotic tongue.
Mallard- do not take this as an attack, but as the wondering of a confused trapper.
Where did anyone say what you stated : "I've been contemplating the "they should be "seen and not heard"" comment, and I guess I feel like some of us are being told to do just that"
Please, I beg of you- show me where you read that. Show me how you came to that conclusionm. No flaming- but I am curious how you made that leap.
I have carefully reread each post and cannot find that.
or: "I just think that if we limit dialog to question from "newbies" and answers only from "Vetrans"
Nowhere was that said.
what I said was:
IF YOU ARE INEXPERIENCED, THEN DO NOT ACT LIKE YOU HAVE BEEN TRAPPING FOR 100 YEARS.
or to put it another way:
IF YOU DON'T KNOW, THEN DON'T PRETEND YOU DO.
or:
IF YOU DON'T KNOW, THEN LISTEN.
I have emphasied OVER AND OVER that I am in no way discouraging anything from newbies but that.
We can't see each other, so the only way that we "know" each other is through posts. I prefer truth tellers, not liars. And if you have never tried something, have never trapped that animal, and you post a ton of posts portraying your expertise- then my friend, you are a liar. And these are the posts I despise.
and BECAUSE THE LAST TIME I POSTED THIS STATEMENT IT APPEARS TO HAVE BEEN OVERLOOKED- I WILL REPEAT IT:
I HAVE NEVER, NEVER, NEVER, NEVER SEEN THAT TYPE OF BEHAVIOR HERE.
If you have tried a technique, if you have trapped that animal- you have experience. Of course not as much as a trapper of 50 years, but experience. I welcome your posts and observations.
But my POINT seems to be missed over and over. I cannot believe that these simple declaritive startements can't be taken at face value, as to what I have repeated over and over what I am saying, or trying to say.
Instead their meaning has been reduced to "newbies shut up"
Reread my statements- and read what I actually said, that if you "don't know, shut up and listen."
I did not say, and frankly am getting a little peaved that such words are being attruibuted to me, that "newbies shouldn't offer comments"
I am sure this post will be considered flaming, but it was not meant that way. A lot of the problems on forums I am starting to find out is that people really don't read the posts the way they are actually written, but in the manner reader would like to see.
I do know this- I am starting to think twice before giving out any advice on some forums. I'm tired of, as Bob Wendt says, of "getting kicked in the butt" when doing so. Again to quote Bob Wendt- "in no other profession then this are experienced , big numbers guys ridiculed, challenged and held in contempt like trapping"