First see if you actually have a true 31 in draw with the recurve, second don't short change proper form and correct shooting mechanics, third if the bow shouldn't be drawn past 30inchs and you do draw 31 time to trade off that bow for something that will work for you. I've seen time and time again with people (men, women, kids) who try to addapt to equipment that just dosen't fit them in so many ways and they end up shooting not so well, they get frustrated, they don't improve with practice, they form bad habits, and so on. Do yourself a favor if you really want to get into shooting recurves get a bow that fits at a reasonable weight you can handle, arrows that are matched properly, and get in some good practice and enjoy!