TN, this problem within our structure has escalated starting in Vietnam. I can remember very well my friends saying they could not return fire until the VC WERE IN THEIR WIRE, as they might be friendlies.

I would probably even regress to Korea. We have been "nation building" and doing "police actions" since WWII.
Our government has become LORD over the world, on what these little countries can and can't do. When my son returned from Afghanistan, he stated that the Afghans were a bunch of tough little fighters, with absolutely no interest in democray. When returning from Iraq after BOTH tours there, he stated the Iraqi wasn't worth saving.
They would ambush his patrols, and then hold their own children up in front of themselves, hoping the 82nd wouldn't shoot back.